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Social enterprise cooks up tasty support for kinship families

According to the charity Family Rights Group, more than 180,000 children across the UK are being cared for by their kin – a grandparent, other relative, or family friend – due to their parents being unable to care for them. And while it’s an instinctive choice to make, it is a life-altering role that can come with many unique challenges.

Social worker Anna-Lou Manca has witnessed many kinship carers face financial and emotional difficulties over the course of her career, and it was for this reason that she founded Kinship Carers Hub in 2020 – a social enterprise on a mission to help kinship carers get the support they need to fulfil such a rewarding role.

The hub runs many projects – from employment opportunities to webinar training – which are all designed to provide guidance and support to kinship families, but their main project, Kinship Carers Cooking Club, is one combating social isolation through the power of food.

Each week, kinship families come together to cook and eat a meal, provided by the hub. Aside from the practical support provided through receiving groceries on a weekly basis, and learning about healthy, budget-friendly recipes, it also offers the opportunity to bond and access peer-to-peer support. One carer says: “It has allowed the children to see there are other children in the same situation as themselves, to show them that they aren’t alone.”

If you would like support as a kinship carer, visit kinshipcarershub.org

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Workplace bullying survivor launches campaign for new UK law

The effects of workplace bullying can last a lifetime, chipping away at our confidence and undermining our self-esteem. But Skevi Constantinou, one woman who has been there herself, has come out the other side, and is ready to call for major change to protect others.

The former executive assistant was targeted at work over her chronic autoimmune condition, to the point where she eventually felt afraid to go into the workplace. And, sadly, she’s not alone. But despite Trades Union Congress (TUC) figures that found nearly a third of people have been bullied at work, with more than one in three people going on to leave their job because of it, workplace bullying is not currently recognized as a crime by UK law, leaving the door open for the perpetrators to get away with this behavior.

“This affects millions of people, not just in the UK but globally,” Skevi says. “It’s so important that these people are represented and not made to feel that this is normal – to go to work and be treated that way. Bullies need to be stopped in the workplace.”

She points to Sweden as an example of a country that already has laws that specifically prohibit bullying in the workplace.

“We all deserve to go to work and be respected in a safe environment,” she says. “Whilst my own experiences have shaped me in many ways, I want to help others as best as possible.”

Sign Skevi’s petition by visiting petition.parliament.uk


Sound asleep?

Is there a moment you wish you could forget? Well, scientists might just have found the secret. A team from the University of York explored the impact on our memory of playing sounds as we sleep, so whether it’s an embarrassing moment, a bad breakup, or an intrusive thought, we might find certain sounds help us let go in the future.

Try six sleep sounds to listen to tonight


With the colder weather and longer nights finally here, it’s time to huddle together and embrace the local community spirit. And a new, large, interactive art project in Cornwall looks set to do just that.

Arts Well, a social enterprise that advocates for the importance of creativity in health and wellbeing, unveiled its latest project at Jubilee Wharf in Penryn. A giant nest has been built with the help of neighboring businesses and local organizations. Part of the national Fun Places initiative, designed to celebrate creativity and promote well-being throughout the year, the project puts playfulness at the heart of what it does.

Made using willow and hazel branches, along with the helping hands of plenty of locals, people were invited to hop in and experience the sense of calm and well-being created through being within the nest.

As program coordinator Vicki Bampfield-Hammond explains, “A nest is a symbol of creativity and nurture, perfect to bring our working and residential communities together. We felt a giant nest was really appropriate, as everyone who wanted to get involved could, nurturing creativity, inclusivity, and community spirit.”

While it remained nestled in Jubilee Wharf throughout the holiday season, the nest will be moved to its permanent home in the new year. Watch this space!

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Vicki and Jayne


Can our canine friends sniff out stress?

When we’re struggling, dogs just seem to know. Whether they jump on our laps for a cuddle or smother us with licks, our companions have a knack for cheering us up. And it turns out, there’s science behind it.

A new study from Queen’s University Belfast has found that dogs can smell stress in humans. When we get stressed, compounds change in our sweat and breath, and this is what our pets are sniffing out.

In the study, samples were gathered from participants before and after completing a difficult maths exercise. Dogs were able to detect which samples came before and after the activity. Ranging from 90% to 96.88%, the accuracy rate was even better than the researchers anticipated.

“While it is likely that in a real-life context, dogs are picking up on our stress from a variety of context cues, we have shown, using a laboratory study, that there is a confirmed odor component that is likely contributing to dogs’ ability to sense when we are stressed,” says animal psychologist and study author Clara Wilson.

What we don’t know yet, is whether dogs understand that what they’re smelling is stress, or if they care. While their behavior suggests they do, which is why they make great therapy animals, more research is needed.
Until then, we’ll conduct our own research with plenty of pet snuggles. For science.


Write on time

Letter writing seems to be a dying art in the digital age, despite 84% of kids saying they’d be excited to receive posts. The survey, from The Diana Award and Nationwide, revealed that one in three children has never penned a letter, and a fifth haven’t received one in the past three months. In response, the organizations launched The Positivity Postbox, a scheme to encourage schoolkids to pen letters to children in partnering schools around the country. Sounds like a writing revival.

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Puerto Rico Syndrome Or Panic Attack? What Is It?

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Puerto Rico Syndrome Or Panic Attack

Puerto Rico Syndrome is a psychiatric condition often seen in Latin people. The syndrome has been given many names including Puerto Rican Syndrome and Ataque-de-nervios. These names come from how culturally bound this condition is.

It was first seen in the Puerto Rican soldiers in the early 1950s. Because of the stress the Puerto Ricans were going through at that time, many people started showing dramatic symptoms of pseudo-epilepsy.

These people showed symptoms like screaming, biting, kicking, seizures, intensive shaking & shivering, etc. Initially, the doctors believed it was a sign of a neurological condition but could not find any physical evidence for it.

After having so many Puerto Ricans experience these symptoms, mental health professionals decided to call it the Puerto Rico Syndrome. They also noticed that this syndrome looked very similar to a panic attack but was completely different from it.

Let’s explore Puerto Rican syndrome and understand it better…

What Is Puerto Rico Syndrome?

Puerto Rico Syndrome is a culture-bound condition that is marked by physical symptoms very similar to a panic attack. However, that syndrome is different from a panic disorder.  It is also known as Ataque-de-nervios which translates into “attack of nerves”.

Puerto Rico Syndrome is said to be exclusive to the Latino culture, specific to the Caribbean region. According to some surveys, the Puerto Rican syndrome was most commonly found in women however a significant amount of men showed the symptoms too.

Initially, the healthcare providers could not understand the cause behind these panic-like symptoms. However, as they began examining and studying more cases, it was found there was extreme cultural stress and unrest which might have been leading to Puerto Rico Syndrome.

Symptoms Of Puerto Rico Syndrome

Since Puerto Rico syndrome is a type of stress response, its characteristics can be different in different people. It includes a lot of symptoms similar to anxiety, stress, and panic responses, let’s have a look at some;

  • Constant feelings of intense fear
  • Inability to move
  • Uncontrollable crying & screaming
  • Hot flashes especially from chest to head
  • Physical aggression
  • Lashing out at others or indulging in verbal attacks
  • Increased heart rate
  • Tightness in chest

How Is Puerto Rico Syndrome Different From A Panic Attack?

Panic Attack

If you look at both conditions from afar, they might look identical. Ataque de nervios, the attack of nerves can make you react in a way that looks so similar to a panic attack that many people misunderstand the reaction.

In the case of panic disorder or a panic attack stress and anxiety is the sole cause of nervous stress response. However, in  Puerto Rico Syndrome the feelings of fear and anxiety are not that intense when the syndrome occurs. In panic disorder feelings of anxiety, stress, and fear are heightened when the attack takes place.

A panic attack can also be triggered by stressful situations, particularly the ones they have a problematic history. When we talk about Puerto Rico Syndrome any random situation can act as a trigger, their stress response can occur in even virtual situations.

Treatment For Puerto Rico Syndrome

The fact that Puerto Rico Syndrome is very similar to a panic attack, the treatment procedure is almost similar. The difference between Puerto Rico syndrome and panic attack is in the cause and triggers but the response is almost similar.

In most cases, cognitive behavioral therapy is said to work best for Puerto Rico syndrome. There are a lot of negative thoughts that cognitive behavioral therapy can help you identify and replace with productive thoughts.

According to research, it was found people who experience Puerto Rico Syndrome have some suppressed anger. Now this suppressed anger when combined with your negative thoughts is responsible for aggravated stress response.

Therefore, treating these issues is also important. In Puerto Rico Syndromes there is a psychosomatic tendency as well. Your treatment will encircle and address all these symptoms through psychotherapy and some clinical drugs like antianxiety can be prescribed to manage your fear and anxiety.

 

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9 Best Podcasts For Anxiety to Listen to in 2023!

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Best Anxiety Podcasts

Anxiety is one of our body’s defense responses that practically tells us that we need to tread carefully. Anxiety makes us nervous, scared, and panicky in situations where we feel out of control and lost. While this natural response can push us in the right direction, when it becomes too much, it can make our lives harder than usual.

Feeling anxious is OK, but it can become an anxiety disorder when it becomes too overwhelming. Anxiety disorders are one of the most common mental health disorders in the world, so you know you’re not alone in feeling anxious.

Reading about anxiety and how to work through it can be great, but it could not be simple for everyone. To help you learn how to cope with anxiety on the go, I’ve brought to you a list of the best podcasts for anxiety that you can follow and listen to learn how you can work through your brand of anxiety.

No matter if you’re at work or commuting, listening to these anxiety podcasts will help you learn some of the best coping tips, techniques, and more that you can use in your daily life to counter your anxiety.

*These podcasts are not recommended by doctors or professionals and should not be taken as therapy. These podcasts for anxiety should be listened to as an aid with professional treatment.

9 Best Podcasts For Anxiety of 2023

1. The Mental Illness Happy Hour

The Mental Illness Happy Hour

Sometimes, we need to tackle our worst problems with humor and that’s what The Mental Illness Happy Hour podcast does. Hosted by comedian Paul Gilmartin, Happy Hour is a weekly podcast that’s been running for six years. You can listen to all kinds of topics being discussed – from mental disorders to addiction – on this podcast. This podcast for anxiety puts a humorous cherry on a serious cake.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

2. The Anxious Achiever

The Anxious Achiever

Hosted by Morra Aarons-Mele, The Anxious Achiever is a podcast best for people with work anxiety. Listening to this podcast will help you reframe how you think about workplace anxiety and give a holistic view of mental health. It’s a common misconception that people struggling with mental health disorders cannot succeed. On this podcast, you can listen to real-life stories from successful people on how they tackle their anxiety and thrive.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

3. Your Social Anxiety Bestie

Your Social Anxiety Bestie

The best podcast for social anxiety, Your Social Anxiety Bestie is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with social interactions! This podcast will give you the truth about social anxiety and celebrate the courage that we all take in the world even with social anxiety driving our thoughts. Whether you’re an introvert, socially awkward, anxious, or a mix of all, you can listen to this podcast and not feel alone anymore.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

4. LGBTQ&A

LGBTQ&A

Listen to the most interesting people in the LGBTQIA+ community as they talk about various issues surrounding anxiety. Hosted by Jeffery Masters and produced by GLAAD, you can listen to famous people such as Laverne Cox, Janelle MonĂĄe, Pete Buttigieg, Brandi Carlile, Alok Vaid-Menon, Angela Davis, and more as they speak about their experiences as members of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

5. Yeah No, I’m Not OK

Yeah No, I’m Not OK

As children, we’ve grown up hearing that mental health is nothing but in our minds. It’s not a real issue. Mental health was just never talked about, right? Well, that’s what Yeah No, I’m Not OK strives to remove it. Mental health issues are rising, and it’s up to all of us to make sure that we have the resources that our older generation lacked. This podcast is a revolutionary one that gives way to open mental health conversations for all, whether it be – addiction, depression, racism, anxiety, self-harm, or something else.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

6. Meditation Minis Podcast

Meditation Minis Podcast

Want to practice meditation on the go? Don’t have enough time to meditate? Well, this Meditation Minis Podcast is here to help! Listen to short guided meditations to calm your nerves, anxiety, and negative thinking, and improve your focus. Hosted by hypnotherapist Chel Hamilton, this award-winning podcast is a must-listen for meditation beginners or even pro-practitioners.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

7. Anxious in Austin

Anxious in Austin

Hosted by psychologists Dr. Marianne Stout and Dr. Thomas Smithyman, Anxious in Austin is one of the best doctor-led podcasts for anxiety you can listen to. You can listen to these doctors discuss treatments for anxiety to help you understand anxiety and how it affects you. Listening to this podcast can also help you understand OCD and how (and why) it often co-occurs with anxiety.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

8. Your Anxiety Toolkit

Your Anxiety Toolkit

One of the best OCD podcasts, Your Anxiety Toolkit is a mindfulness-based podcast that will give you information and help educate you on how OCD, anxiety, eating disorders, and depression play a role in our daily lives. You can also learn helpful tools to tackle everyday anxiety and OCD.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

9. Get Sleepy

Get Sleepy - best podcast for anxiety

Sleep and anxiety go hand in hand so how can we miss one of the best podcasts for sleep? Get Sleepy is rated the #1 sleep podcast on Spotify. With sleep stories to calm the mind and meditations to relax the body, this podcast is a good listen. However, you need to become a premium member to access bonus episodes! Even without it, Get Sleepy is a good podcast for anxiety and sleep that you can add to your list as well.

Listen to this podcast here on Spotify!

Final Thoughts…

Anxiety can’t always be easy to tackle but with the right tools and techniques, we can make do. These podcasts for anxiety can help you get started though. You can learn from real people’s, real experiences and see how you can incorporate their techniques into your anxious life.

While listening to podcasts is not a substitute for therapy, they can make a great addition to your self-care or “me time” routines.

 

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Can Support Groups Help? The Pros And Cons Of Support Groups

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“Raising a child takes a village” – have you heard of this phrase? I have always believed that this phrase is as apt as it can get, but then I also realized another truth some years ago. If raising a child takes a village, then caring for and healing oneself back to health takes a village too. After all, just like a child, you’re nurturing yourself back to health, so why not?

In this instance, I’m talking about support groups and the impact social support can have on our healing. In my experience, there are support groups that encourage you to get better, that support your recovery, but I’ve also been part of support groups that seem to do the opposite.

Support groups are a great way to seek help in healing. They allow your healing to be as natural as possible, but then there are times when support groups – or rather people or facilitators – of those groups can hinder your recovery and set you back.

In this article, I’ve listed the benefits and disadvantages of support groups with some tips that can help you ensure healthy social support and how to get it.

The Pros And Cons Of Support Groups

Support Groups

Benefits Of Support Groups

1.You Don’t Heal Alone

One of the benefits of support groups is that you find yourself in a community where you are not alone in your recovery. Because of the stigma around mental health, many people are uncomfortable opening up about their issues. This can make your problems seem bigger than they are, making you think that you’re alone in your suffering.

Being in a support group can help you find a place where you’re comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings without feeling alone.

2.You Get A Supportive And Safe Space

Another benefit of a support group that I’ve realized is the supportive and safe space they offer. Oftentimes, we feel that we’re not safe in expressing our feelings and thoughts. We feel like if we open up then we’ll be judged. Support groups offer a non-judgmental and safe space where you can openly express your thoughts and doubts.

A properly facilitated support group can be safe where you can air your fears, doubts, worries, and frustrations without fearing unsolicited advice. You are also surrounded by people who are less likely to take advantage of your vulnerability.

3.You Can Help Others Too

Healing can’t be done alone and rather than only getting help, support groups provide you a chance to help others too. And isn’t that the greatest gift you can give on your healing journey? While not everyone’s problems will be the same, they might be similar and can get the help they need from your experiences.

Not only can you learn from their experiences, but you can also impart lessons you learned to them and help them on their journey.

4.You Improve Your Social Skills

When you join a support group, you meet new people and when you meet others with similar experiences, you connect with them on a deeper level. This opportunity allows you to improve your social health and social skills too, especially if you’re used to staying isolated and alone.

In a support group, you can learn to be less withdrawn and find a place where you can open up to others once you get to know them on a personal level.

5.You Can Easily Afford The Help

Another advantage of a support group is that you can easily afford it without breaking the bank. You can find a support group online or offline. There are many support groups that you can join for free. They are at least cheaper than individual therapy or group therapy.

If you’re not sure about joining a support group, you can try a free one online or check in with your community groups to see if there’s a free support group you can join. Attend the first few meetings and only when you feel comfortable, try to share your experiences with others.

Disadvantages Of A Support Group

1.Others’ Problems Could Trigger Yours

Positivity attracts positivity and negativity attracts negativity. So imagine what will happen if you put a group of people who are struggling with negative emotions into a room? It’s likely to fuel or trigger your problems and emotions into action and instead of healing from them, you might find yourself drowning in negativity.

Here’s an example, in “Alcoholics Anonymous Support Groups” if someone has nothing good to share, it can cause another person to relapse. Same with mental health support groups. Some topics can be triggering for some people and if not handled with care can do more harm than good.

2.Vulnerability Can Be Misused

Sometimes when you join a support group, there are people there who can use your vulnerability against you. They would pretend to care first and then use your vulnerability to form a connection with you that might go beyond support. While it’s not a bad thing, it can hinder your healing nonetheless.

If anyone from a support group approaches you intending to date you, then immediately distance yourself. Dating support members is against the rules of any quality support group.

3.Support Shouldn’t Be Connected With Religion

Many support groups operate on spiritual beliefs but connecting spirituality with religion might be a bad step. If there’s a support group that preaches anything related to religion – yours or others’ – then it’s not a quality support group. A good support group allows healing in its own way but connecting support with religion is not appreciated.

If you are a religious person then you can find support in Christian support groups or Islamic support groups, or any other religious support group if you wish it. Even if you are in a support group where your religion is not practiced then it doesn’t mean that you’re not safe.

If anyone makes you feel unsafe about your religion, then it’s not a quality support group.

4.Online Support Groups Are Not Always Safe

It’s a topic of debate whether online support groups are safe. Honestly, they could be hit-and-miss. Online communities are made up of largely anonymous people. You never know to whom you’re talking and whether they are a safe person. With the right moderator, an online community can act as good support.

However, the moderators need to be respectful and have good judgment. They should be able to enforce rules and be able to act on them. But they also should not force those rules. In an online support group, there’s always a chance of losing the core identity of the group with time.

Tips To Help You Find The Right Support Group

Right Support Group

  • Try to understand the support group guidelines and see if they are enforced properly. Are facilitators and moderators advising people to talk about subjects that are safe and steer clear of conversations that might trigger others?
  • Understand that there could be times when your environment doesn’t feel stabilized. In those situations, you need to see if you’re still receiving support from the group. Remember, it’s OK to step out for a moment to recollect yourself and even leave the group if you begin to feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • Avoid dating group members. If you connect with others and form a connection with them, try to keep the relationship to just friends (or at least until you’re out of your vulnerable state). Also, remember that relapse is OK and healing is a journey that’s best done at your pace.
  • You can also try to just observe the group before joining in. Make sure you understand how the group works and how it encourages all its members to share and heal. You need to find a group with proper moderation and a community that encourages sharing experiences but also shut down any conversations that are disrespectful or triggering to other members.

Final Thoughts…

Support groups can be a great way to begin your healing and recovery, but they might not be for everyone. If you decide to join a support group, then keep your mind open and observe how they work before making a decision. If you find that a support group is not for you, then you can connect with a professional therapist to facilitate your healing.

But, if you find yourself benefitting from a support group, then carry it on. Make sure you understand the support group guidelines well and respect everyone’s space and experience, just like others respect yours.

Remember, you are not obligated to stay in the support group if you find yourself getting uncomfortable.

 

Swarnakshi is a content writer at Calm sage, who believes in a healthier lifestyle for mind and body.

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Can Time Heal All Wounds? Understanding Time’s Role In Healing

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Time Heal All Wounds

We can thank the Greek dramatist, Menander, for giving us a saying that has gone through numerous translations and remains timeless even today. Today, this quote is used by many people to comfort others going through pain – whether emotional or physical.

“Time heals all wounds” – When you hear this, what’s the first thing that comes to your mind? Do you believe in these words or do you feel that all this is faux?

There are times when all you need is a few months to work through the pain, like a sprained ankle for example, but when your pain refuses to heal, what can you do? Can time truly heal all wounds?

I, for one, used to believe that time is all I need to get over something traumatic, but lately, I’ve begun to realize that time might not help me heal if I don’t cooperate with it!

I agree that time is an important part of the healing process, but there are also factors that we conveniently forget to note when it comes to the healing process. Time can dull the pain of the trauma or the loss, but time alone can’t heal you.

Today, I’m exploring with you the role of time in healing, other factors that can hinder your healing, and how you can utilize time to speed up your healing.

Time Heals All Wounds: Can It Be True?

There were times in my life when my mother used to tell me that, “time waits for no one” and this phrase stuck with me for a long time. I used to think that if I didn’t heal on my own, nothing will help me. But, when we talk about time and healing, what role does the former play in the latter’s process?

So according to experts, time allows an opportunity to self-reflect on the source of your pain. When you give time to yourself to heal, you reflect and process the event that’s hurting you or causing you emotional pain. This time allows you to decide how you’re going to use this chance to shape your present and your future going forward.

Time allows you to gain healthier insight into your trauma, better your relationships, and facilitate your growth. Many people use time as a healer and gather memories and experiences that change their perspective on the difficult experiences they’re healing from.

You can reconnect with your old friends, create new friends, build new relationships, or even participate in activities that can help speed up your healing and recovery. It also gives you the strength to move on. Now, this can’t be said for all experiences.

When it comes to healing from grief, for example, it can be a different process. When you lose someone, it leaves a mark on your heart and mind, and it makes it difficult to move on from said loss. Here, time helps! So, grief never leaves, we just form new experiences around grief. Those experiences we gain with time allow our grief to not feel overpowering anymore.

That helps us move on while keeping the memories of our loved ones with us.

Now, when I talk about self-reflection, I don’t mean rumination. Ruminating on negative beliefs can hinder your healing and set you back on your recovery. When you truly gain a new perspective on your situation, that’s when it is healthy self-reflection.

What Can Hinder The Healing Process?

There are other factors that we might not consider that can hinder our healing process. Here are some things that can prevent time from healing us;

  • Being fixated on the pain and negative experiences
  • Refusing to let go of the experience
  • Being in denial or not allowing yourself to believe the trauma
  • Not forgiving the other person (or yourself) for the trauma
  • Not allowing yourself to lean on a social support system to express your emotions
  • Engaging in unhealthy and negative coping mechanisms
  • Ruminating on the negative beliefs left from the experience

Tips To Promote The Healing Process

If you’re not utilizing or cooperating with time and letting yourself heal, then it will take more than you might imagine. The more you let your wounds fester, the more chance there will be of catching an infection, won’t it?

The same happens with emotional or psychological hurt too. The more you refuse to work on healing (even with time), the more it’ll take for you to heal.

Here are some tips to help you utilize time and speed up your healing process;

1. Try Cathartic Activities

You need to learn how to express your emotions to let your mind and heart begin the healing process. This means choosing to integrate art-based activities such as making music, writing in a journal, or creating art to express your feelings. Try to pick activities that feel cathartic to prevent suppressing your emotions.

2. Accept Your Emotions

You need to accept your emotions as they are. This is an important step especially when you’ve experienced a traumatic event such as a death of a loved one or a physical injury. You need to accept the emotions that you associate with the event and allow yourself to feel those emotions to move on.

3. Seek Support

Time won’t help if you won’t cooperate with it. Social support can work wonders for your healing journey so spend some time with your social support people. These people can be your friends, family, therapist, or life coach. You need people in your life who can help you with emotional support.

4. Engage In Activities That Support Your Values

You can also speed up your healing by engaging in activities that align with your values. This includes working on your hobbies and interests. You can also choose any of these activities to promote healing with time;

  • Spending time with friends and family
  • Connecting with new people
  • Journaling your thoughts
  • Meditating on your emotions
  • Working on your physical health
  • Making new memories
  • Expressing your gratitude for things in your life
  • Forgiving yourself and all who hurt you
  • Engaging in self-reflection and understanding your emotions
  • Reaching out to a therapist or life coach
  • Engaging in creative or expressive arts to express your emotions

Time Is A Healer…

But only when it lets it be one. “Time will heal everything” might be an old saying, but it stands true to this day. Even though many people might swear by it, saying that time is a healer, it might not be true in many cases such as grief over losing a dear one. Time might dull the pain, but it may never truly heal.

The idea of letting time heal all wounds is to allow yourself to find ways in which you can understand, process, and express your emotions so that you can begin your healing journey. If your healing is slow, then don’t blame yourself. There’s time for everything, so be patient with yourself and be self-compassionate.

If you’re still finding it hard to move on or heal, then you can seek a professional’s support. They can help guide you through your emotions and kick-start your healing process. It’s OK to ask for help when time seems to go slow.

I hope this article helps you understand how time heals all wounds, but I also hope that you remember that time is not the only factor to consider on your healing journey.

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