Judge says man unfit for trial, mental illness fueled by energy drinks – KVRR

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MINNEAPOLIS – A judge says a Minnesota man accused of killing three family members with a wrench is mentally incompetent to stand trial, citing testimony from doctors about his mental illness intensified by energy drinks.

David Ekers is charged with three counts of second-degree murder in last year’s attack in a Minneapolis suburb that killed his sister, mother, and grandmother.

The ruling by Judge Lisa K. Janzen says evidence of the negative effect of energy drinks on Ekers’ schizophrenia dates back to at least 2017.

During one hospitalization in 2018, the judge says his “psychotic symptoms appeared worsened with the ingestion of large amounts of energy drinks.”

 

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How to reset your sleep schedule in three days

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Whether you’re coming out the other side of a long weekend, the clocks have changed, or you’ve been making the most of your time off with some well-earned relaxation, discover how to reset your body clock fast

Sleep. It’s essential. Getting a good night’s rest allows your body and mind to recharge, helping you to feel ready, refreshed, and alert for the day ahead. Without good quality sleep, we’re not only left feeling grumpy and unfocused – we could be putting our health at risk.

One in three of us suffers from poor sleep. When a bad night’s sleep turns into a regular occurrence, we put ourselves at risk of a number of physical and mental health problems. If you find yourself watching the clock and longing for a nap, chances are, you aren’t getting enough sleep.

Knowing we need more sleep, and actually resetting our schedules can be two very different things. Long weekend nights can lead to our bed and waking times slipping further and further back. Well-earned days relaxing during our time off can result in us not feeling tired come bedtime, whilst the clocks going back each October or forward in March can leave us feeling groggy and confused.

As Counselling Directory member and professional counselor Sue Stradling explains, creating a routine is key to getting a better night’s sleep.

“Sleep likes a routine, so try to keep regular hours. Going to bed at the same time every night, and waking up at the same time every morning can help to program your body to have a better sleep. Don’t worry about not falling asleep. The more you worry, the less likely you’ll be able to sleep. If you can’t sleep, get up and try something that you find relaxing, and then go back to bed when you feel sleepy.”

To help you get your sleep schedule back on track, the sleep experts from MatressNextDay have shared their guide to reset your body clock in three days.

Day one

Wake up: 10am
Bedtime: 11pm
Today’s plan: exercise and hydrate

If you’re getting started over a bank holiday weekend, it’s best to get started on a Saturday. To help you feel ready to fall asleep on time, try and fit in a 30-minute workout. Research has shown that moderate exercise can not only boost your mood, but can help those experiencing sleep issues such as insomnia to fall asleep faster and for longer, experiencing a better quality of sleep overall. Exercise can also act as a natural stress reliever which, in turn, can help you to feel calmer and ready to switch off at the end of the day.

Make sure to drink plenty of water. Even mild dehydration can leave you feeling sleepy and lethargic throughout the day, with research showing it can negatively impact our ability to complete tasks that require our concentration, coordination, or more complex problem-solving skills. Keeping a bottle of water with you can help to remind you to keep drinking, whilst helping you to avoid the pitfalls of hidden caffeine boosts that may be causing you to yo-yo throughout the day.

Ensuring you cut down on screen time before bed can also be key to help reset your body clock more quickly. Counselling Directory member and psychotherapist Maja Andersen explains more about how blue light can disrupt your natural sleep cycle.

“It takes your brain about an hour to switch off from blue light input from your smartphone, tv, tablet, or laptop. Good sleep hygiene (such as) having a regular bedtime and sleep routines is by far the best option. Keeping a sleep journal can help you track your quality of sleep and may help you identify patterns, for instance staying up watching TV for an hour longer than normal may trigger a lapse in concentration the following day.”

Day two

Wake up: 8 am
Bedtime: 11pm
Today’s plan: sunlight, limited naps, and limited alcohol

For day two, kickstart your morning by opening your curtains to get some early morning rays. Bright light signals for your brain to stop producing melatonin (the sleep hormone), which makes you feel drowsy. Getting outside for as little as 10 minutes can help to increase your vitamin D levels. As one Nutritionist Resource member explains, vitamin D plays an important role in our mental and physical health.

“Its role in healthy brain function and immunity is of vital importance, especially as we come to the end of winter where our natural source of vitamin D from sunlight has been at a minimum.”

Vitamin D not only helps keep our bones, teeth, and muscles healthy, it can also play a huge role in regulating our mood. Not getting enough can lead to an overall sense of tiredness, aches, pains, and generally not feeling well.

While napping isn’t ideal, catching a quick 10-20 minute snooze if you need to is ok. Just make sure you’re doing it as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the closer bedtime creeps and the more likely you are to disrupt your sleep schedule. By limiting yourself to 30 minutes or less, you reduce your chance of entering a deep sleep cycle and waking up groggy.

Alcohol can reduce your REM sleep, causing more disruptions and a less restful night. By limiting your alcohol intake, you reduce the likelihood of it disrupting your sleep and causing excessive sleepiness the next day.

Day three

Wake up: 6-7 am (or as early as you need for work)
Bedtime: 10pm
Today’s plan: good food, limited caffeine, calming nighttime routines

What you eat can have a huge impact on how you sleep. Diet and sleep quality are closely linked. Get your day off to a good start by having a balanced breakfast with healthy fats and lean protein for an early morning energy boost. Limit your caffeine intake by cutting back on coffee or switching to herbal tea to avoid relying on short-term energy boosts that may leave you feeling groggy.

Your cortisol levels (the stress hormone) can leave you feeling more awake, so it’s important to maintain a sustainable, relaxing nighttime routine. Stretching, mindful meditation, yoga, or having a hot bath can all be simple ways of unwinding without screens.


 

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Why hydration is good for your mental health

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We all know about the importance of trying to drink our eight glasses of water a day, but there’s far more to it than just quenching your thirst…

If there’s one simple habit that’s universally recommended, it’s to keep on top of your water intake. Water is involved in so many different bodily functions – from helping our body get rid of waste to protecting our joints – yet in the busy lives we lead, many of us forget to drink enough.

Nutritionist Uta Boellinger says: “Good hydration is crucial for health and wellbeing, and just about every mechanism in your body relies on adequate water intake.”

It’s not just about your physical health either, with water playing a part in your mental health, too. A study found that drinking the lowest levels of water doubled the risk of depression and anxiety.

Let’s take a look at why keeping track of your hydration is one of the simplest and most effective things you can do for your mental health.

Why hydration is so important for our mental health

How exactly does hydration help our mental health? Well firstly, much of our brain is actually made up of water, so when we’re in a state of dehydration, our cognitive performance is affected. Studies have shown that just being dehydrated by 2% impairs things like memory and focusing on your daily tasks.

Because of this, reducing water intake can lower your mood too, since dehydration creates a stressor on the body – and may also impact mood-boosting hormones such as serotonin, that are found in our brain.

“Dehydration causes brain functioning to slow down and can impede serotonin production, as well as increase stress hormones, and that can contribute to making your mental health worse,” explains Claire Elmes, an emotional wellbeing consultant. “It can lead to lower energy, increased mood volatility, and poor concentration, exacerbating pre-existing symptoms, and leading to further discomfort.”

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Another study found that those who reduced their water intake increased their thirst, which led to a decrease in positive emotions such as calmness and feeling content. In turn, those who had low levels of water and increased it, reported improved fatigue and an improvement in their mood when waking up at the start of the day. Clear evidence that not getting enough water could be one potential reason behind low moods and feelings of fatigue and low energy.

Why you might be at risk of dehydration

As well as understanding the importance of hydration, let’s talk about why you may be at risk of dehydration – particularly if you are dealing with mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression. One reason for this is that your mental health could be impacting your sleep patterns, which brings with it an increased dehydration risk.

Studies have shown that those who sleep for a shorter period of time each night, are more likely to be dehydrated.

This can sometimes create a vicious cycle: since we struggle to get enough sleep, we’re likely to be low on energy and reach for things like coffee and energy drinks to get us through the day. However, caffeine is also a known diuretic; this means it often increases your need to urinate after you drink it. Because of this, we lose more fluids through urination, meaning we need to drink even more water to compensate for this loss. Alcohol works in a similar way, so it’s also worth bearing this in mind. While it doesn’t mean you can never drink coffee and alcohol, it’s definitely worth drinking extra water to balance things out.

Finally, it’s worth considering that those with low moods might find it more challenging to track and keep on top of their fluid levels – something that’s really important in avoiding dehydration.

“When you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, or other mental health problems, it can be incredibly difficult to maintain a routine, and keep up healthy habits, like drinking plenty of water throughout the day,” explains Claire Elmes. “You may be preoccupied, forget, or lack the energy or will to look after yourself and nourish your body.”

How to maintain good hydration habits

The first thing that’s important is to understand the signs of dehydration, since some people don’t even realise they’re dehydrated. These include increased thirst, dry mouth, constipation, fatigue, and headaches. Some people also keep an eye on their urine when they go to the loo. Your urine should be a pale yellow; the darker it gets, the more likely you’ll need more water.

Don’t forget to consider energy levels, too. Nutritionist Uta Boellinger says: “If you’re feeling tired and struggling to concentrate, it can be a sign of dehydration. And your skin is also a good indication, especially dry, cracked lips which signal a lack of hydration.”

It’s also worth figuring out the right amount of water for you. We’re told eight glasses a day, but some people may need more than this – for example, those who exercise frequently or drink coffee regularly.

“Dehydration causes brain functioning to slow down and can impede serotonin production, as well as increase stress hormones, and that can contribute to making your mental health worse”

Create healthy habits to ensure you drink regularly: this could be setting hourly reminders on your phone, or using a water tracker bottle. Don’t forget that it doesn’t have to be just water you focus on. Your food intake may count towards your water intake too, with water-rich foods including watermelon, cucumber, and lettuce. In turn, if you find it tricky to drink plain water, adding fresh fruit or cordial can make it more palatable.

If it’s the case of just forgetting to drink enough, try to take steps to force the habit initially.

“Something I often suggest is to have a glass or bottle by your bed in the morning, so it naturally becomes the first thing you do,” says Claire Elmes. “Or make sure you always have a glass of water with a meal. By implementing these small changes to encourage yourself to drink more water, they can eventually become habitual (it can take up to a month, so don’t give up!) and you may notice slight improvements in your day-to-day functioning and mood, and your ability to manage your mental health.”

It’s clear that getting enough water each day is a simple yet effective habit that supports your physical and mental health. Keeping track of your intake, drinking regularly, and looking out for the signs of dehydration, can be a great way to make sure you stay hydrated and reap the benefits of a glass of water.


To connect with a nutritionist, or learn more about the effects of dehydration on mental health, visit nutritionist-resource.org.uk

 

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Here Are A Few Life Lessons Worth Keeping Post-Pandemic

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Life is full of many transitions. True enough, we made countless shifts here and there brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic, and as the vaccines are being rolled out in pursuit of a virus-free environment, what have been some of the most valuable lessons we learned throughout the course of the global health crisis that we should keep?

In this post, I am talking going to talk about a few life lessons worth keeping post-pandemic. So, here are 6 straightforward life lessons that should still be in your bag even after the virus ceasefires:

6 Life Lessons Worth Keeping Post-Pandemic

COVID-19 has taught us many things, many of us have seen the worse. But it was humanity that went for a complete loss besides the global economy. I hope these lessons echo your thoughts.

Life Lessons Worth Keeping Post-Pandemic
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1.) Happiness is a mindset

In the grueling times of the pandemic, most of us had a hard time finding happiness in the conduct of our transformed lives especially when happiness meant living the best version of ourselves in the outside world. It is twice as hard when we had set a price tag for it like a new designer bag, a countryside trip with friends, or a party we waited nights for. The truth is that happiness is a mindset. It comes from within ourselves and not from external and superficial things and circumstances.

Quarantining at home may be far from our ideal living conditions and keeps us off our extensive list of wants but through time we learned the discipline to make the most out of what we have and willingly defer the things that can patiently wait. If we can keep ourselves grounded with this attitude even after the pandemic, we can embrace life with a newer perspective and mentally condition ourselves to be happy under all outward and underlying circumstances. And, this is one of the basic life lessons worth keeping post-pandemic.

2.) Absence makes the heart grow fonder

It was certainly heartbreaking having to keep a distance from our friends and family in light of the risks of contagion — most importantly when your predominant languages of love involve physical touch and acts of service. Post-pandemic, we already learned how to interplay not only these but all the other love languages: giving or receiving gifts, quality time, and words of affirmation to optimize our expression of affection. We, then, can already make up for our loved ones for the time we both missed and passed so to rebuild shared memories together again. 

3.) The greatest challenge is time

Through social media, we realized how quick life events can turn out to be. Family members grieving over loved ones who passed due to untriumphant COVID-19 battles. We learned how life can be taken away from us in a blink of an eye. Post-pandemic, we all should value time for others equally as our time for ourselves. Do everything while you may, while you can, and while you have the gift of time.

4.) Recognition is a form of gratitude

Essential workers who brave the risks to themselves just to serve have proven to be the current heroes of today’s times. The public manifested their appreciation by making signboards, participating in hashtags on social media, and even paying it forward by helping others in the form of soup kitchens or free meals. Others gave generous tips and extended many thank yous. It would be best to keep this trait alive even after the pandemic.

Also, it is not only those at the frontlines who we should recognize but also everyone who tries strives, and continues even if the times are tough and challenging. Recognitions increase personal morale, self-esteem, and motivation. Those things are what can push others, as well as ourselves, to their core, to do more, and go beyond. If we can light others’ paths in this way, we are forging a world where nothing is impossible.

5.) We can live with lesser stuff

Many of us found a love for decluttering. Time spent quarantining became worthwhile from putting away and donating things that might be more valuable and useful for others. It was one of the best life lessons worth keeping post-pandemic that we have learned to scale down purchases and store fewer things inside our homes.

Living with the minimalist principles gave us more freedom and this lifestyle is definitely worth keeping post-pandemic. Not only does this free up house space but also time, money, and resources. Living with less stuff still makes one feel complete and allows us to focus more on those that matter most — self-love and our relationships.

6.) Health is a true priority

Transitioning to post-pandemic life, we should also retain our self-care healthy habits. Shared social media posts inspired many to shift into a healthier lifestyle and transform their homes into their personal gyms. Online workouts, virtual meditations, and other remote physical activities to entertain oneself did not have a hard time penetrating the new normal life scheme.

One of the most importantlife lessons worth keeping post-pandemic, health is wealth. Value of health has been given emphasis during the pandemic since it was also campaigned by multiple health offices. Consequently, people followed through by submitting themselves to social distancing rules, hand hygiene practices, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Such practices led to giving oneself the needed peace of mind in these trying times of uncertainty.

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About the Author:

Bash Sarmiento is a writer and an educator from Manila. He writes laconic pieces in the education, lifestyle, and health realms. His academic background and extensive experience in teaching, textbook evaluation, business management and traveling are translated in his works.

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When & How To Talk To Your Partner About Your Depression | Tips To Keep In Mind

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When & How To Talk To Your Partner About Your Depression

Living with depression can be challenging, not only when it comes to your professional or social life but romantic relationships as well. If you’ve experienced depression or if you’re experiencing depression for the first time, the hallmark symptoms can make it difficult for you to enjoy a fun, open, and happy relationship with your partner.

But did you know that being able to share your challenges of mental struggles with your partner and having their support can be healthy for you and your relationship?

Yes! Talking about depression with your partner means being true to yourself and your mental health struggles. Especially with something that has the potential to affect both your lives.

Talking to your partner or spouse about your depression can help them understand how they can support you. One of the symptoms (and also a result) of depression is isolation or loneliness. Having a loving partner’s support can help you see a situation from a different perspective and also let you see the hope for a better future.

First, Let’s Take A Look At What Depression Might Look Like For You

Look At What Depression Might Look Like For You

Depression is one of the most affected mental illnesses around the world according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). For people experiencing a depression relapse or first-time depression, symptoms can vary from mild to severe.

As difficult as it can be, talking about your depression and its symptoms can make it easier for your partner to support you. Your partner is your advocate, your cheerleader, so telling them about your symptoms can be awkward and difficult but important.

Now, if you don’t know what you need, how will you convey your needs to your partner?

The first step is to understand your symptoms and how those are affecting your overall wellness. Everyone’s symptoms of depression can vary. Check-in with yourself to understand how depression looks like for you.

Some common symptoms of depression can be:

When Is The Right Time To Tell Your Partner About Your Depression?

When Is The Right Time To Tell Your Partner About Your Depression

It’s not about a particular time or a day that you should keep in mind about when to tell your partner about your depression. What matters here is to do whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

It’s okay if you want to talk over breakfast or during a casual conversation if it makes you feel more at ease. The point is to not feel embarrassed or guilty when it comes to sharing your struggles with your partner. Remember, depression is not something you should feel ashamed of.

If you don’t know how to tell your partner, you can also consider using pop culture references such as suggesting watching a movie and spend the time after discussing the struggles in the movie. Comparing and contrasting your experiences with those of a movie character can help.

Pick an activity that makes you feel comfortable about sharing your struggles and experiences with your partner. The overall point here is to let your partner express their opinion on your mental health struggles and let them decide how they want to move forward in the relationship.

How To Start The Conversation?

How To Start The Conversation

Now that you’ve decided to talk to your partner about depression, here are some conversation starters you can use to outline your discussion:

1. Know Your Intentions

What are you looking for? Is it emotional support? Or is it more than just an understanding? These questions are important before you begin the conversation. Once you know why and what you need from your partner, you can think about the hows of starting the conversation.

Some questions to help you get started can be:

  • How much are you willing to tell your partner about your depression?
  • What is the reaction you’re hoping for?
  • What kind of support are you looking for?
  • Do you want your partner involved in your treatment plan?

Once you know your intentions, you can begin preparing a plan on how to begin your conversation. Let your partner know your intentions too. Telling them what you need from them at this point can help.

2. Use Statistics & Resources

One of the important things to do is to educate yourself about depression and how it affects someone’s life. Sharing information and resources with your partner would be effective if you know about it from a clinical and educational perspective.

Experiences of depression are different for everyone and the most important thing to do is to understand the signs, types, causes, and treatments available for depression. It is also important to note that depression can coexist with other mental health disorders.

If you’re worried about your partner’s response, then it is suggested you bring official statistics and resources to the table. How you start the conversation depends on your relationship but sharing resources can help your partner better understand your struggles.

3. Share Your Treatment Plan

Regardless of whether you’re experiencing a depression relapse or first-time depression, make sure your partner is involved in your treatment plan and is aware of your feelings. You might think you can handle your depression alone (and while you can), you shouldn’t. Emotional support from a loved one can help in your recovery.

If you’re seeing a therapist or a counselor, ask them to see in what ways you can add your partner into your therapy plan. Having your partner share your treatment plan can help them understand how to adjust to your daily life and see how they can contribute to your recovery.

You can also ask your partner to accompany you to your sessions. This will allow your partner to get a deeper insight into your struggles and experiences.

4. Keep Communication Open & Honest

If your partner fails to offer you support, it’s not your fault. They might not understand your depression or how to help you. Talking to your partner about your depression is not only about strengthening your bond but also about improving the communication between you two.

Opening up about your depression with your partner should not change the dynamics of your relationship. If your partner is unsure how to support you, you can let them know what you need from them. Keep the communication line open at all times.

Any kind of negative reaction may cause trouble in your relationship but it will not be because of your depression. It could be a sign that your relationship is not as strong as you had hoped. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, your mental peace and health should be your priority.

If your partner’s response is troubling you, you can always seek couples therapy or individual therapy to understand how to move forward.

Writer’s Thoughts

Talking about your depression with your partner can be challenging but it can help you gain more support and help. Depression is a part of you but it does not define who you are as an individual. It isn’t something you should be ashamed of either. Try to be open and honest about your experiences with your partner.

Not talking about something as important as depression can affect your relationship and cause your partner to distance themselves from you if you’re not open about what’s bothering you. While having a mental illness is not your fault, it takes a lot of courage and bravery to open up about it.

Deciding to share your struggles is a huge step forward and a very important step for your recovery process. Remember, you are not alone in your struggles. Talking to your partner about depression cannot be easy but with the above-mentioned steps, it can be possible.

Take Care!

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